Tuesday, March 26, 2019

WHAT IF HARRY POTTER OBSESSED SOUL STRUCK IN AN INDIAN HOUSE WIFE'S BODY



Harry Potter: A name for which no introduction is needed. The series amplified the love for reading, in both children and adults. They loved the characters to the core. The books took us to a fantasy world. 
Here are the consequences if a hardcore Harry Potter fan is an Indian house wife.

1. Before she opens the door she says "Alohomora".

2. She says “UP” every time she sees a broom to clean.

3. She wishes she had a wand to illuminate the room with Lumos without reaching the switch.

4. She waits for her kids the 11th year, expecting a letter from Hogwarts.

5. Name her pets as Scrabbers, Hedwig, Crook shanks!!

6. When she had a bad fight with husband, she says “My father will hear about this”

7. Whenever she finds a single sock, she cries “Master has given Dobby a sock!! Dobby is free!!”

8. Bedtime stories for her kids are the stories from "Tales of Beedle the Bard".

9. Wishing an Invisibility cloak as a present for Diwali.

10. Trying charms for knitting. ( Yup!! It works in our world)

11. Trying Silencio for crying toddlers. (I am gonna try this for sure!!)

12. Trying Accio for almost everything. (For lazy women)

13. Try Legilimens for reading husband mind. (We can reveal your mind with this spell!)

14. Ordering butterbeer every time you visit a restaurant. (Umm... Orange juice ??!)

15. Frustrated in slow metro transport. Travelling by Floo powder is so much easy!!

16. Trying Agumenti when there is water scarcity. (If we could use our wand outside the school, there wouldn't be any problem for water in summer)

17. Riddikulus for a cockroach encounter. (I wish I could use this spell)

18. Wishing for Remembrall for what she forget about shopping. (Forget about the list)

19. Husband waits for Vivo IPL, Pro Kabaddi league, football, even Olympics. She is interested in Quidditch World Cup, Triwizard Tournament. 

20. And finally Avadakadavra every time she sees the people she doesn't like.


And says Silly Muggles if you can’t understand this language. 

Tuesday, March 19, 2019

WHY WOMEN SHOULD GET MARRIED IN THEIR EARLY 20'S

Let me say, some of you will definitely dislike the title. 
"Why should I get married in the predefined period? I have the independence of choosing the time!!" Many of you will feel like this.

Nowadays women are preferring career than getting married. Even though they are married, "settling in life" is becoming the first option than to have kids. I don't say it's wrong. 
But you need to consider the following points before you make a decision:
1. Your Body:
It is an open secret that fertility in women will be at peaks at the age of 20-30. Chances of getting pregnant are high in that age. You may ask “There are chances of getting pregnant after 30's too" 
There are chances! But the chances are too narrow. You may quote the example of Aishwarya Rai getting pregnant in her 30's. However, she had taken utmost care medically.
The chances will be pretty low as you move towards the late '30s. And also let me assure you will not have the same body as in your early 20's after pregnancy.
Children need mother’s attention, at least till 10years. If you have your first kid at the age of 28-29, the second kid will be at 31-33. If you have your first kid at 23/24 years, even if you plan for another child or stop with a single kid, your energy levels in raising your kid/kids will be sufficient. By the age of 33/34, you will complete the 10years attention criteria. 
      If you plan kid at 28/29, to complete the 10year attention criteria you will be at 38/39 years. I can be sure your body energy levels will not be the same in your early 40’s as in the early '30s.
2. Mindset
During your young age, that is 23-24; your mindset will be an almost budding stage. You may have strong opinions on things, but you have the accepting capability. 
But during 28-29 your mindset becomes stubborn, you are more opinionated. The chances of adjustment are less. Did you notice, by the time you reach 28/29 years you have closed circle of friends &relations? Which means you almost closed doors for new relations. (Excluding who are in the relationship with their partner from childhood/the early '20s).
In this time, if you marry, the differences in opinions will rise. You may think the opinion differences may arise at any age. However, at some age, your ego won't accept defeat!! Isn't it!??
Think about your body and mindset, before you make a decision about marriage. If you can’t accept the body and mind changes, ask your mother, elder sisters, or aunts how they transformed!!
Take a wise decision!
Happy womanhood!!
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